I’ve been wearing men’s thong underwear for many years, and over the last several years, I’ve become a regular wearer. At this time, I wear thong underwear almost every day. For reference, I’m a toned, muscular, and athletic male and my wife happens to love how I look in a thong. Now that I’ve tried many different brands, I’ve also found which men’s thong underwear fits me well, so I often find that thongs are extremely comfortable, many times quite a bit more comfortable than boxer briefs and other more traditional options.
However, the question often arises as to whether women find men’s thong underwear to be sexy, and the answer is quite nuanced. First of all, women aren’t a monolith, and each woman has their own unique preferences. I’ll share some of my own personal experiences, will share some opinions I’ve read online, and will offer my overall impression based on what I’ve experienced and what I’ve read.
In my experience, most of the women who have seen me in a thong have told me that they loved the look and that they thought I looked incredibly sexy in a thong. This includes my wife, whose first words upon seeing me in a thong for the first time were “Oooh, sexy!”. I also had a girlfriend many years ago who upon discovering that I was wearing a thong, pretty much attacked me sexually and couldn’t control herself. Later on, if she discovered that I wasn’t wearing a thong, she’d insist that I change into a pair of her thong panties. Over the years, nearly every woman I dated has offered very positive feedback upon seeing me in a thong, usually commenting on how sexy they thought I looked. I did date a couple of women who either didn’t particularly care for the look, were tolerant, or simply ambivalent, but the overwhelming majority absolutely loved that I wore thongs.
While there are no definitive studies concerning the attitude of women toward men in thongs, from what I’ve read online, many women are either ambivalent or don’t particularly care for the look, especially if it’s in a public setting like on a beach. A small minority emphatically love to see men in thong underwear, and there are some who are fine with it, but don’t care much either way. That said, I believe that the question of whether women like men in thong underwear deserves a slightly more detailed answer.
While there are some women who are visually driven, such as my wife, who loves seeing me in thongs, I believe that the question of whether women like to see men in thong underwear often comes down to several factors. One is familiarity. I suspect that many women may not be enthused about seeing a random man in a thong, but if that man happens to be their significant other, that’s a different story. Also, it helps if the man is in decent shape. My wife loves me in a thong because of how it highlights my glutes and my muscular frame. Like any other article of clothing, it helps if the man can wear it well, and wear it confidently. Which brings me to the next point. It’s important to wear your thong with confidence. In general, women like a confident man. A man who is so confident that they can pull off a thong is someone who is secure in their manhood and their sexuality. The other reason why I believe that some women may enjoy seeing their man in a thong is that it’s a sign that he’s paying attention to how he presents himself, and that he chose to do something special for her. Even if she doesn’t particularly care for the look, it’s always nice to know that your partner went out of their way to look appealing for you. In this case, thong underwear can spice up the relationship and this can be a real turn-on for some women.
As you can see, there’s no clear answer, and all women are driven by different things. Some are more visual, others appreciate that their partner made the effort, others may enjoy the edginess of a thong. There are also very likely many women who have never seen their partner in a thong and despite what they may post online, some of those women could potentially find their male partner to be sexy in a thong if they ever saw it.
My takeaway is that I’d highly encourage any guy, regardless of their physicality, to try a thong if they so choose. Wearing thong underwear is fun, feels sexy, feels very stylish, offers a lot of support in the front and freedom of movement, and is a highly personal decision. Don’t worry about what anyone else thinks. If you’re curious, go out and get yourself a few thongs and give them a try. It’s your life and your choice. Wear your thong with confidence and don’t concern yourself with what anyone thinks. There will always be someone who thinks you look sexy in your thong!
