When I first began wearing men’s thong underwear, I was extremely self-conscious. I knew that nobody had any idea what style of underwear I was wearing, yet that didn’t change my feelings. I must admit that whenever I was out with a girlfriend who loved seeing me in thong underwear, it was quite arousing knowing that she was thinking about me in my thong, and I always rather enjoyed the thrill of wearing a style of underwear that was thought of as being somewhat risque. It was (and still is) a turn-on knowing that my partner and I share this little secret of her knowing that I’m wearing thong underwear for her (and for me). I even once had a girlfriend insist that I wear her thong underwear one time when we went out for the evening.
There are several ways to feel more confident wearing men’s thong underwear, and we’ll explore these here in this post. Much of this involves one’s mindset, but there are other things we can do to feel more confident in a thong as well.
First, it helps to stay in shape. Being a regular wearer of men’s thong underwear can be a huge motivating factor in staying fit. If I start to gain a few pounds, it becomes quite obvious when I look in the mirror while I’m wearing a thong. It helps tremendously to be able to look in the mirror and like the site of yourself in a thong. When I wear a thong around the house, it also helps to see my wife checking me out, or when she walks over to caress my butt. This can add a lot of confidence since thong underwear tends to highlight the shape of the glutes as well as overall musculature. Also, being muscular and fit gives me a lot of confidence to wear a thong knowing that my underwear of choice shows off my muscles extremely well.
It also helps to have someone to wear your thong underwear for. Simply knowing that your partner loves seeing you in a thong can add to confidence. When you know that there’s someone out there who loves seeing you in thong underwear and who is looking forward to seeing you undress, it’s a constant reminder that you’re wearing a thong not just because it feels sexy, but also because someone else finds you sexy in a thong.
Most importantly is your mental attitude toward men’s thong underwear. It helps to simply not care what anyone else thinks. Some people will love it, others won’t care, and some will be turned off by it. That said, this is no different for thong underwear than it is for any other garment. So just remind yourself that the only opinion that matters is your own. I’ve also reminded myself that in reality, nobody truly cares all that much, and beyond the possible initial surprise at learning that I’m wearing a thong most of the time, the overwhelming majority of people are simply too absorbed in their own lives to actually care about my choice of underwear style.
If you wear thong underwear for comfort or for practical considerations, then it matters even less what anyone thinks. Put on your thong, enjoy the comfort it offers, and forget about what anyone thinks.
A final point to remember is that a large part of what many women who are turned on by a man in a thong like is seeing how confident the man is in a thong. Without this confidence, the sexiness level is much lower. So embrace and enjoy wearing a thong, be confident, and ignore what everyone else thinks. Unless of course they like seeing you in a thong, in which case, strip down to your thong and enjoy showing it off!
